How come being proud of your race is okay, unless your white? Whites who are proud get branded as racist?

Isn't this prevelant attitude itself extremely racist and discriminatory toward whites, how are race relations ever expected to honestly make any kind of headway fight racism with racism?!? or reverse discrimination? I think being an educated poor white male that current attitudes and "politcal correctness" on racism only breed more hate and discontent, you don't treat a minor cut with an amputation! I understand americans of african descent have a higher standard of living in america then thier racial counterparts anywhere else in the world! One could look at this and say slavery was the best way for africans to achieve thier highest standard of living? The pendulum always goes way to far the other way!